• To those who say parenthood is a thankless job…wait for it.

    Mom Ninjas I’ve been seeing a lot of people talk, discuss, complain and rant about the obnoxious attitudes of other people’s reactions to grocery store toddler meltdowns. One parenting friend of mine shared a blog written by a single guy who stuck up for what he called a “mom ninja.” That phrase pretty well describes me, or what I am determined to become.   Chalk it up to a touch of obsessive compulsive disorder or overprotective parenting, but my daughter was born during flu season–and a bad one at that, so I chose not to take her out of the house at all for about six weeks.   I swear…

  • I’m pretty sure Breaking Bad’s Bryan Cranston is a nudist

      As I celebrate my son’s tenth month on this planet, I simultaneously await the season six finale of Breaking Bad along with many many other fans. The show earned Cranston, whom I believe to be a nudist–but I’ll get to that–three Emmys. I’m sure other blogs exist questioning the merit of the plot line, and I’m sure that I fit alongside several other parents who quietly tuck their children into bed and sneak away to watch Breaking Bad.   Why did we start watching Breaking Bad? I cannot really remember why my husband and I chose to watch the show, but I remember the episode after episode angst and…

  • Because we only have 24 hours in a day…

    One of the hardest things to do for me is admit that I cannot actually do everything that I want to do because of the finite number of hours in a day. I feel like I am/have been doing too much half-assed. So, in the interest of doing the best work in all I do, I dropped a class today. I had an A average, but I can’t keep up this pace. I feel a bit relieved actually.   As I’ve been thinking about the many aspects of my life, and what it is I truly want to do most, I keep returning to the idea of building. My first…

  • I’m beginning to love Gmail for its labels, social media integration and multi-email tasking

      When I first got a Gmail account, I did so on the recommendation of a friend from the United Arab Emirates. As one of my more tech-savvy friends, I just trusted him. I don’t remember why exactly, but I believe I needed an email dedicated to the business I was starting: Target Audience Magazine. I mentioned in “Branding Mistakes” post how I later lamented my decision to brand my business in my email name, but the fact is I am beginning to love Gmail.   Label everything One of the first things I loved about Gmail was the ability to organize my email through the use of labels. From…

  • Tiptoeing through the toddler years: how much should we share about our kids?

    Though I’ve been inspired by the written word and interested in its craft and form for most of my life, I’ve only been a parent for more or less three years. My blog on Fridays will concern itself with my meandering thoughts about my babies. I’m not expert on parenting (some may say I’m not much of a writer), but my wisdom however gleaned will be here for all to absorb (or shake off). Feel free to comment as well!   Toddler nightmares: I’ll tell you what two-year-old girls dream about: their nightmares come from the frustration of not getting their way. If only adult life could be different! Last…

  • The branding mistakes creatives make when setting up social media accounts

    Branding Mistakes: Whose pie are you filling? Be the pie, not a slice.   When any individual starts out online, he or she needs to consider the branding effects of email addresses, social media accounts and blog URLs. If you tie your online image too closely to one thing (say a book, an art career or a band), you may find yourself unable to pull away from it. You may have the grueling task of recreating yourself for another endeavor.   I’ve been thinking a lot about the mistake Progressive Auto Insurance made tying its brand to a person: Flo. The “Aunt Flo” similarity always came to the front of…

  • Becoming a blogger

    I’ve been many things in my life; a writer remained at the front of how I always chose to describe myself, but when the Internet beckoned me, my answer was to start a magazine that would inspire artists and contain content I love. That magazine has shaped itself into a resource for all creative entrepreneurs, and I have stepped back as the jack-of-all-trades to focus my attention to what I most love. I most love the feeling when I’ve built something or someone else up.   I began by writing my dreams into characters who could accomplish all things imagined within the constructs of my short stories. Those characters melded…

  • Meeting Neil Gaiman at the last book signing, The Ocean at the End of the Lane

    This was originally published in Target Audience Magazine June 23, 2013. A Neil Gaiman book signing hosted by Eagle Eye Bookshop I had no need nor desire to tell Neil Gaiman about the Sandman tattoo I got at age 18. All I knew was that it would be well worth the wait to get a chance to talk to him in person; I had no idea what I wanted to say in the fraction of time I would get to speak to him. For all the excitement for the official first day of summer and an evening blessed by an appearance of a super moon, I jumped for joy inside…